Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder.
Rigid perfectionism and control that crowd out flexibility and connection.
Obsessive compulsive personality disorder is characterised by an obsession with perfectionism and control. People struggling with this disorder may find themselves lost in rules and details to the point that they lose sight of the bigger picture and may be unable to complete the task at all. They will prefer to take care of things by themselves instead of delegating tasks to other people because this way they know it will be done properly. This pattern of rigidity and inflexibility makes it difficult for them to get along with other people. They can become devoted to their work to such an extent that it results in neglect of social obligations and other responsibilities. People struggling with OCPD often have black-and-white thinking and may not be able to see nuance where it is required. It is also important to distinguish OCPD from obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD), as the two conditions are often confused due to their similar names. Unlike OCD — where intrusive thoughts and compulsions are experienced as distressing and unwanted — the rigid patterns in OCPD usually feel ego-syntonic, meaning the person sees their perfectionism and need for control as the right way to be, even when it causes problems for them and those around them.
When to seek help
Obsessive compulsive personality disorder is a condition that may be appreciated or even revered in school or work environments. Depending on the culture one is from, it is possible that this degree of devotion to perfectionism, order and one’s own beliefs is seen as a good thing. However, it is necessary to recognise when these traits begin to cause problems in one’s relationships and other areas of functioning. Some traits that may seem harmless to an outsider may be causing distress to the person experiencing them, and it is important to seek help when they do.